We all love a good lay. Unfortunately, a good lay is hard to come by – just getting to the finish line is next to impossible with the vast majority of men not knowing how to….please their ladies properly. By the time you have one who knows how to work it, you have had to sleep with hundreds, (okay, we might be exaggerating just a tad,) if not thousands, (once again, a slight exaggeration to bring the point home,) of men which means night after night of going to sleep and waking up completely and utterly unsatisfied. However, with sexting, you won’t have the same experience and you won’t have to wake up with mounds of regret every time you decide to virtually bang a stranger because, well, it’s virtual. You didn’t technically do anything….right? We are all about the sexting in 2020 and here’s why:

No Physical Interaction

If you choose to sext over sex, even through a sexting website, you will be cutting out any physical interaction with another human being, which may not sound that appealing but hear us out: you won’t have to go searching for a body to bang, you won’t have to be disappointed by said body and you won’t have to worry about where this man has been or who he has been with. No physical interaction means you will always be safe. We have all been in positions where we have felt unsafe or unsure of our decision to go home with a stranger, but now your stranger can join you in the bedroom or bathroom or kitchen or wherever else you decide to flick the bean, without any issue. In the touch of a button he will be there, ready to please you with his dirty mind and his virtual fingers, (aka your fingers….or toys).

Use Your Imagination – Cue Fantasyland

You will never have to worry about eye contact or your partner making sure you are in the moment with them, (or vice-a-versa,) ever again. You can read that naughty story being written between the both of you and then the rest is up to you. You not only get to narrate the story, you also get to choose the hunkiest of hunks to be your leading man. Don’t limit yourself by only having sex in this physical realm. Fuck your mind with some nasty sexting.

Feeling Uninhibited

There is no awkward interactions, awkward eye contact, natural, (albeit it frightening,) bodily functions to worry about. There is no need to hide what you are really thinking or be afraid of asking for what you want, because just like the cyberbullies, (but less mean and more hot,) you have a keyboard and screen to hide behind. Now is the time to let your wild side make an appearance. Now is the time to act the way you do after a few too many shots of tequila, minus the tequila. Be outrageous. The more outrageous the better. Remember, all you have to get off are words, so use them and don’t be afraid to think outside of the box.

Quid-Pro-Quo

Finally! Is it just us or can guys be a little bit….selfish in the bedroom? It can, and a lot of the time is, very one-ended and all about pleasing the guy. Well move over selfish sex and welcome to selfless sext. There is no way to be selfish with texting. If they decide to sit there and keep asking, “What else?” when replying to your well though out sexy texts, you have the ability to flip the switch on them and give them a taste of their own medicine. Sexting absolutely has to be a joint effort and it is a journey you are not going to embark upon unless you know that you will get something out of it as well. Why else would you be trying to sext in the first place? He scratches your back and you scratch his and together you will make a steamy story that will be in cyberspace until the end of time.

An Easy Out

If you decide to go home with that guy you were sitting across the bar with and are suddenly not feeling it, but it is 3AM and you don’t have your car and your phone is almost dead and you are tired and sloppy drunk, that could definitely pose a problem. You don’t ever want to feel stuck and with sexting, you never will. If you aren’t feeling it, you don’t ever even have to say anything. All you have to do is not respond. How freeing does sexting sound now?

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