Sometimes having a relationship via chat line can be confusing – the lines can be blurred since you aren’t able to be there with one another in person. Chat lines bring singles together, but they don’t do all the work that it takes to make a relationship stick. Do you implement a “Don’t Ask Don’t Tell” policy, decide to be open with one another, or decide that it is best to keep the relationship between the two of you and practice having some phone/cyber/solo sex? There is no right or wrong when it comes to what you and your partner decide to do; as long as you two are on the same page we are fully here for it! Bringing up the subject of monogamy with you chat line lover can be very daunting. Even though your relationship may be progressing and you two may be going strong, distance can be a real downer. So, how do you decide whether monogamy is right for your relationship, and how do you bring up the subject of monogamy?

Do You Believe In Monogamy

Nowadays, you cannot simply assume that everybody believes in monogamous relationships; a lot of people are going back to the 60s with a new and improved type of “Free Love” movement that has blown up over the past couple of years. If you and your partner don’t align with your wants and needs and expectations from a relationship, there really is no need to go any further. Revert back to those chat line greetings and try again. However, if this conversation results in an agreement on where you two stand, then….

Tell Them, Don’t Ask Them

It is time to be bold and tell your lover where you stand; be open and honest and let them know that you are ready to take the next step and make your relationship official. What comes along with that? Boundaries. Tell them you are ready for monogamy and want to be with them and only them. If they received the first part of the conversation well, as long as they feel as strongly about you as you do about them, there is sure to be a positive outcome to this convo! Don’t take the easy way out by asking them what they want out of your relationship and where they stand. There’s this thing in improv where you try to avoid asking the other person questions because instead of adding anything important to the conversation, you are just making the other person carry the entire narrative. Once again, be bold and speak your truth. Either way, you will find out whether or not your relationship is going in the direction that you want it to.

Discuss The Distance

A long-distance relationship is a lot of hard work. Even if you care for the person very much, when you aren’t able to physically be with them, it definitely puts a huge strain on your relationship. There is no set date night where you know you will be able to meet up once a week and spend hours upon hours together, making up for lost time from working, spending time with family/friends, and any other obligations you may have. When you are already separated by distance and dating via chat line, slipping up is easier and so is letting go. To get the good out of this relationship, you have to discuss the bad, and distance is a huge obstacle. Is monogamy realistic for the two of you? Really take everything into consideration. Don’t say anything you don’t 100% mean or else someone is bound to get hurt.

Chat Line Phone Sex

Can you find other ways to fulfill each other’s sexual needs? Are you at the point in your relationship where you feel comfortable speaking openly about sex and about ways that you two can get intimate together via chat line? If so, this can be a great temporary fix until you two can connect in person and see where you lovebirds go from there. A plus? This is sure to strengthen your bond, your ability to communicate and show you whether or not you can trust your partner while being vulnerable. If you haven’t met someone on a chat line that can fulfill you sexually, it would be worth it to check out a naughty or erotic number as the callers are always in the mood! 

Just Remember…