If you have been trying to find people to chat with on a gay chat line, but are not having much luck, then maybe you are a little too picky and need to loosen up a bit. If you are not sure if it is you, or them, read on to find some telltale signs of being too picky. Gay men just want to have fun, and if you are too fussy or critical, people are not going to want to spend their time or money on you.

You Have Been Single a Long Time

If you have been single a long time, that is a good indication that your particular personality may be pushing people away. Sure, hanging out on a singles line is fun if you are in between relationships or if you enjoy a good time on the side, but if you are consistently single, that is a telltale sign that your fault-finding may be getting in the way of true relationships. 

You Never Get a Second Call

If you have been trying to meet some fun and flirty singles on a gay chat line, but those handsome fellas are not lining up for a second call, then they might think you are too fussy. People don’t want to spend time that is supposed to be free-flowing and easy with those who are critical, so loosen up a little if you want to get a second call. 

Your Personality is All-Or-Nothing

Often, people who have a personality that is all or nothing can be draining to others around them. This might be the case with you. Those men who say “My way or the highway” certainly don’t endear people to them. This causes stress even over the phone when things are supposed to be light and fun. 

You Are Looking for Perfection

Let’s be honest, the world is filled with a wide variety of people. Everyone has different personality traits, physical characteristics, and mental hangups. If you are looking for perfection, you will never find it, and the pressure might cause others to be put off by you. Our flaws are what make us human, and you will need to find a gay love interest with a set of flaws you can put up with since no one is perfect. 

You are Impulsive

One last thing that can turn people off on a phone date is your proclivity to be impulsive. Whether you run your mouth without thinking first, or spend money you don’t necessarily have without forethought, this can be a real turn-off for people on a gay chat line. 

Phone daters are looking for a fun and enjoyable time, and don’t want to be bogged down with all of your needs for perfection. If you find that people are turned off by your attitude, or you are not getting a second call, then think about the way you carry yourself and see if you might be able to tone down your attitude and your need for perfection a bit. This could lead to a good time on a chat line, and the possibility of more in the future!