Maybe you met on a chat line or maybe you met in a naughty chat room…whatever the case may be, you found the person that you have been searching for ever since you started clubbing and realized that your body count was going to be at least triple your age if you didn’t get everything together pretty soon; you have found the perfect hookup buddy. Now all that is left to do is meet in person. Up until now, it has been fun and games in the safety of your own home, with the ability to hide behind a screen and shut the other person out whenever convenient. Up until now, you haven’t been able to look them in the eye and touch their skin. Up until now, you haven’t felt their hands and mouth exploring your body. Up until now…..Where were we? Right! The point is, we all need casual sex every now and again. You don’t want to be the kind of person fantasizing about it, you want to be the kind of person that is actively involved in the process! It is time to birthday suit up and get ready to have a ball…or two….

We are here to put your mind at ease and make the initial meet-up a fun and very memorable one. If you’re not having fun with this then what is the point of having an FWB? Now let’s get down to business.

Role-Play

Start off on the right foot and enter into an agreement of where you are going to meet. Tell your to-be FWB what you are going to wear and then don’t communicate after that until you meet up for the first time. Create a character. Have fun with it. Think about a character/somebody that you find sexy and build from there. Don’t break character. Maybe you will meet at a bar and have a Pretty Woman moment, or meet at a restaurant and be hiding your affair from your spouses, or even play out a circumstance similar to your own: two adults dressed to the nines, showing up at a bar separately and leaving together. How scandalous! Maybe your lingerie peeks through at the bar and everyone around you sees, including your new woman/man. Maybe you have a louder-than-needed conversation about what you want to do to one another. Maybe you even go so far as to have a Bonnie & Clyde moment. Your imagination is the limit.

Toys

Dark Stranger

Maybe you meet somewhere at night – perhaps an alleyway or a staircase, (or for those of us who are a bit more conservative, a hotel room will do the trick,) – and without saying a word, slip your panties off and go at it. A hookup buddy is a HOOKUP-buddy, not a talkbuddy. Sleeping with a “stranger” like this could break you out of your mundane cycle of reaching for your vibrator. Plus, the adrenaline rush isn’t too shabby.

Let’s Make A Scene

Let’s kick it up a notch and decide to make a bit of a scene at that local bar you’ve never wanted to go to. After agreeing to meet, come up with a reason to fight, whether it be a cheating scandal or something else along those lines, and get loud with it. Let your inner high school theatre kid shine through on this one…and just as quickly as everybody around you, (clutching their drinks, holding on to their tables for dear life,) thinks that you are going to break up, you make up…..a lot. You make up a lot. Be loud. Be proud. Be sloppy. Be like the dogs you see humping in the park. Get riled up. Then get out.