Your sexting partner might not always want to sext at the most opportune times: when you’re in bed, in the bath, in the privacy of your own home…but that doesn’t mean you can’t give them exactly what they are looking for while using your surroundings to your advantage. If you’ve found a sexting partner online who is always down to get down, use this advice to sext in public! Whether you are on the train on the way to work, at a café, or at a gal pal/guy pal dinner, there is always a way to turn up the heat and sext on the go.

The Thrill Of a Public Setting

Instead of letting the fact that you are in public intimidate you, let it inspire you to get a little bit more freaky than your normally would. Use your surroundings to your advantage by bringing in what’s going on outside, into your sexting game. If you see a couple kissing on a bench in the park, use that to start a narrative about having sex in a public park, or tell your sexy sexter that you just saw a guy’s hand up a girl’s skirt and it got you thinking….Don’t be afraid to exaggerate what you see going on around you. Let your sexting buddy know that you are thinking about them and that you are turned on by them at all times of the day, no matter if you are doing errands, going to work or walking down the street.

Be The Narrator

If it turns you and your S.O. on to watch other people or talk about other people doing the nasty, then you can really use being out and about to your advantage. Observe couples who you find attractive, or couple who are overtly sexual, make up a backstory for them, and let the conversation begin. Whether you end up writing a bit more of a novel, or better yet, it becomes a back and forth and you two create a story together, you are sure to have a good time with this one.

Voyeurism Via Phone

You’re at a bar with some friends and downed a beer or a glass of red. You go to the bathroom and start thinking. So sext your S.O. and tell them that next time you go out you want to have some adult fun in a bathroom stall where anybody could walk in at any moment. Get the heat and steam rising from there. Play out the scenario. This can work wherever you are: a boardroom, the beach, your friend’s house, a store….the possibilities are endless. Play them out via sexting on the go so that you can get (it) up and going.

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