Calling into a chat line, whether it be your first or 500th time, can be a very exciting thing! You never know who you are going to link up with and connect with. There’s always that chance that you will find your forever, whether you are looking for that type of relationship or not. As your relationship progresses, you should be learning more and more about your partner to see if you guys align on more than just surface level. There’s always time for fun and a break from life when talking to your chat line bud, but at some point, there has to be more to your relationship than just that; a distraction from your everyday troubles. Making a transition into more serious topics can be overwhelming: are you going to offend your S.O. with a question that is too personal, are they going to think you are dense for asking questions that don’t matter…..you could worry for days if you let yourself. Instead, wait until you feel like your relationship has progressed to the point where you WANT to know about your S.O.’s future plans to see if maybe, just maybe, those plans will possibly involve you.

First…

No question is too personal. We really believe that. If you are curious about something, you should ask. That doesn’t mean they have a responsibility to be receptive to it, but it will definitely be telling as to how much information they are willing to divulge. You want an open, honest, communicative partner anyway. Especially when you are chatting via telephone.

In An Ideal World…

In an ideal world, what would your life look like? This is a fair question. If you are looking to live in a brownstone in NYC with a high paying corporate job and no kids, and your chat line love is looking to start their own self-sustaining farm and have tons of tiny humans running around, maybe you are a bit too far apart to find a middle ground. This is better to know now than down the line.

Your Moral Compass

It is imperative that you talk about your morals. If your moral compasses don’t align at all, you better get back to listening to those chat line greetings to find someone that you vibe with on a more spiritual level. If your beliefs and morals are so far apart from one another, it just isn’t going to work. We never write in absolutes but….for this one, we had to make an exceptoin. 

Passionals

What are you passionate about? What are traits that you want to learn in the future? What are you working on right now? We have found that if your S.O. doesn’t have a passion for at least one thing in life, the relationship tends to go down the drain.

Are They On Your Level

Make sure they are on your level. You want someone to push you to be better and vice-a-versa. Don’t ever settle. And if you feel like you aren’t on the same wavelength, that is okay! A relationship should be a push and pull. You should never be the only one contributing information and helping the other person grow. If you’re not growing and flowing, it’s time to get going.